As I mentioned a while back, Gary is in the middle of another court mess with his ex. Today we got a packet from his lawyer with copies of correspondence between the two lawyers and of course a bill. I am so pissed off that we have to fork out more money to the lawyer because of this crazy pain in the ass. For what and for why?!?! I really would love to understand what she thinks she is going to accomplish by all of this. Regardless of the outcome and regardless what the court says he has to pay her she is never ever ever going to drive a wedge between the two of us. She can take away all of our money, she can take away all of our possessions when we can't afford to pay for them anymore, but she will never take the bond that we have. I am truly sorry that she thinks that I have taken something from her, but she really needs to look in a mirror and realize she lost his love a LONG time before I came into the picture. The reason I say this is because I know that all of this is aimed directly at me, and maybe not necessarily me as a person but anyone who would be sitting in this position as Gary's new wife. And perhaps it really is just me, who the hells knows with her.
I am just so pissed off to have to write a check for any amount of money for a lawyer we shouldn't have to be paying just so that she can satisfy some childish vendetta. Her childish behavior is ironic too, since she recently had a birthday turning 36 years old. Then again I suppose if I was a 36 year old bitter single women that can't hang on to a relationship I might have nothing better to do either then make my ex husband's life hell!
All of this in response to Gary asking for 50% custody of his daughter. Maybe she thought that this slap of another law suit would scare him away from going after what he wants, but trust me if she knew him at all she would know that this is just fueling his fire. Again, another ironic twist to all of this that she spent over 10 years with him between their dating and marriage and yet she really under estimates him in every sense.
For many that know about these struggles that we go through with her, they always say the same thing...we must have a strong relationship to overcome. I could not agree more. There is nothing that she can throw at us that will tear us apart. He tells me that he relys on me as his rock through all of this, and I try very hard to be strong for him. So that means I can vent my frustrations and forget about her insignificant presence in our lives. I am constantly reminding myself that she is nothing more then the other half of Rylee's DNA.
Ok, I have had enough of her. I know that you guys are being the bigger people, which is hard to do considering how fat she is! Anyways, I am so ready to call her and tell her everything that you both are too nice to say.
ReplyDeleteI mean all Gary was asking for was to see his child one more day a week. Just because their marriage didn't work isn't a reason to keep his daughter away. After all the things that she has said about how her mom was/still is after her parents divorce, you would think that she would want to be different/better. I know she must be hurt, but that isn't a reason to sabotage her child's relationship with her father.
She really needs to get over the fact that her and Gary divorced TWO years ago. You most certainly weren't the first girl, you were just the last. You cannot steal someone's husband. Gary was miserable with her (we could all tell by how he was around the office) and wanted out. You just showed him that life could be better. She needs to grow up and move on. So your husband left, yes it is sad, but get over it already. Stop being so petty. But I forget that that is how her whole family is. I mean her mom is that way with her dad, her sister is that way about her ex (whom, by the way she left after having an affair herself with one of their friend's husbands - pot, kettle).
One day Rylee will realize how crazy her mom acted and how she tried to mess up her relationship with Gary and all of this will blow up in Shari's face. She needs to keep her feelings from interfering with their relationship. They are two seperate issues.
Sorry to let it all out here, but enough is enough.
Jamie for being such a small little girl, you sure to have a HUGE heart! I love you for helping me through this crap I really don't know what I would do with out you!
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